Last night I was out with some friends and the topic of one night stands came up. One of my friends, a guy, has never had one and couldn’t exactly wrap his head around the concept of how they happen(really). Well, I’ll be honest, I’ve had a few. Not recently. Not in years, in fact. And, oddly enough, 2 of my one night stands turned into relationships. In other words, on 2 separate occasions, I met a guy in a bar, had sex with him the night we met with NO expectation of ever seeing him again and then that turned into a relationship. Stranger things have happened, I guess.
Btw, I’m not a big fan of one night stands. It’s a quality control thing. There’s no way of knowing what you’re going to get, in terms of sex (great, good, bad, horrible) with the guy you pick. Which is why I’m such a big fan of having a fuckbuddy. FB=known quality.
Anyway, this week’s poll is a little different in that I’m asking about facts. Not what would you do, or should you do – but what have you done. I’m breaking this up by gender, just because I’m curious. Have you ever had a one night stand?
- I’m a guy, and yes. (58 votes)
- I’m a guy, and no. (30 votes)
- I’m a woman, and yes. (104 votes)
- I’m an woman, and no. (43 votes)
- It’s complicated. (please explain in the comments) (9 votes)
Tags: casual sex, fuckbuddy, one night stand