Let’s see if I can write this post without embarrassing myself to death.
Last night I got together with Lostplum and Little Miss Sarcasm (and our lovely helper Rick, mustn’t forget him) to work on our exciting new project. I can’t wait to tell you about it. We should be ready to release some of the details by later this week. Anyway, after an hour or two of working very hard we were taking a break and somehow we got to talking about sex.
Now, as I’m sure anyone who’s familiar with any of our sites will know, none of us are shrinking violets. And while we are all very different in our backgrounds, personalities and life experiences, we all have a generally similar attitude towards sex, which is: sex is good. People should probably have more of it. I guess, if you wanted to, you could describe us all as sex positive. But that’s not a term I love.
Anyway, we got to talking about sex and our conversation turned to the weird (I think it’s weird) way in which different people label different sex acts as special. For example, Person A might thing that oral sex is more special than vaginal, and only to be saved for men she “really likes/loves” and Person B might think that oral sex is a casual act to be done for just about anyone she’s attracted to.
And then factor anal sex into that and the fact, as we’ve discussed before, there are some women who actually have anal before “regular” sex because they’re saving themselves for marriage. And other women who would consider having anal sex with someone they really loved, like their husband, but no one else. And others who just don’t see the big deal. It’s all just different ways to have fun (that would be me, btw, I’ll out myself).
I don’t think there are rights and wrongs to any of this. Different people are comfortable with different things. Different people like different things. No biggie. I just think it’s kind of interesting.
Tags: anal sex, oral sex, sex