Like most things related to sex, people have very strong feelings about this. Some people think it’s OK, some don’t. I fall somewhere in between.
My views are pretty similar to those expressed in a recent blog in Bitch, Ex Sex: The Ultimate Recycling. That if you had a good relationship with someone and the breakup was respectful (and the sex was good) then recycled sex can be a fine thing, maybe even a great thing if the circumstances are right. But if s/he treated you badly and it was a nasty breakup then ex sex is sure to be a bad idea (even if the sex in the relationship was great). And yeah, I’ve tested this theory.
However, I totally understand people who hold fast to the don’t double dip rule (although I think it overestimates the neediness of the average chick). As usual, I think there is a kernel of truth in the VSB shtick.
What about you, what do you think? Do you think it’s a good idea to have ex sex?
- Never. There’s a reason s/he is an ex. (31 votes)
- It depends on the relationship and the breakup. (62 votes)
- Sure. I really don’t see what the problem is. (10 votes)
- Other. Please explain in the comments. (2 votes)
Tags: bitch, exes, polls, sex, VSB