You know I love my friends over at YourTango. As far as lady mags go, theirs is pretty cool (I have nothing against women or magazines, but magazines that target women tend to be overly obsessed with celebrities, make-up, fashion and ‘pleasing your man’ – shit I really don’t care that much about). Today they ran a post in their Love Buzz column called, Why You Shouldn’t Fake An Orgasm, a topic that is near and dear to my heart.
The thing is, they missed the most important reason, IMHO. I reread it a couple of times, trying to figure out how they could’ve been so sloppy, and then it hit me – the post came from MomLogic (different magazines and blogs will occasionally run their stuff on YourTango for additional exposure, I guess). Now, I have absolutely nothing against MomLogic. But a mom is writing from a very specific perspective (or, that one was).
Anyway, enough about the why… Here is my number one reason why a woman should never ever fake an orgasm: because then her partner will have the delusional belief that he is good in bed, even if he’s not. I strongly believe that the number one reason that there are so many bad lovers in the adult heterosexual male population is that there are so many women faking orgasms. The women, wanting to be polite, or just to get it over with, fake it. And then the guy thinks he knows what he’s doing (when he really, REALLY doesn’t). And then that relationship falls apart and he takes his bad moves on to the next woman. And the next. And so on.
Women, we must put an end to this right now. We have the power. STOP FAKING IT! Make sure that the men in your life know the difference between a good fuck and a bad fuck. Teach them, if you must. Please. The planet will be a much happier place.
Tags: fake, orgasm, sex, YourTango