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	<title>Comments on: Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda(?)</title>
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	<description>Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.</description>
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		<title>By: Little Fish, Big Pond and Still&#8230; &#124; Sex, Lies &#38; Dating in the City</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/08/03/coulda-woulda-shoulda-2/comment-page-1/#comment-6374</link>
		<dc:creator>Little Fish, Big Pond and Still&#8230; &#124; Sex, Lies &#38; Dating in the City</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 01:19:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] first was a man who I&#8217;d gone out with a few times, over the course of a year or so.  But timing was not on our side.  He just now broke up with his latest girlfriend, and so [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] first was a man who I&#8217;d gone out with a few times, over the course of a year or so.  But timing was not on our side.  He just now broke up with his latest girlfriend, and so [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Mitre</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/08/03/coulda-woulda-shoulda-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3963</link>
		<dc:creator>Mitre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 22:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This would make a hell of a short story - expand and publish ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This would make a hell of a short story &#8211; expand and publish &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Simone Grant</title>
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		<dc:creator>Simone Grant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 02:20:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-Singletude
I&#039;ve never really thought of it like that - that some people have the capacity to develop attraction while others can&#039;t.  I&#039;ll have to ponder that awhile.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>-Singletude<br />
I&#8217;ve never really thought of it like that &#8211; that some people have the capacity to develop attraction while others can&#8217;t.  I&#8217;ll have to ponder that awhile.</p>
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		<title>By: Singletude</title>
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		<dc:creator>Singletude</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 09:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Attraction is a complicated thing.  I think some people have a wider range of attraction than others, and some people have the capacity to develop attraction, whereas for others, it needs to be there upfront.  I&#039;m one of those people who needs it to be there upfront because I&#039;ve tried dating guys I wasn&#039;t really that attracted to, and I wound up miserable.  (They were none too happy, either, that I wasn&#039;t that into them!)  Over time, as we date, I think we all kind of figure out which type we are, whether we can learn to be attracted to people or need to feel a certain level of chemistry right away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Attraction is a complicated thing.  I think some people have a wider range of attraction than others, and some people have the capacity to develop attraction, whereas for others, it needs to be there upfront.  I&#8217;m one of those people who needs it to be there upfront because I&#8217;ve tried dating guys I wasn&#8217;t really that attracted to, and I wound up miserable.  (They were none too happy, either, that I wasn&#8217;t that into them!)  Over time, as we date, I think we all kind of figure out which type we are, whether we can learn to be attracted to people or need to feel a certain level of chemistry right away.</p>
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		<title>By: Simone Grant</title>
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		<dc:creator>Simone Grant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 18:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-nikapika
Oops, I didn&#039;t mean to ignore you darling.  First - WELCOME.  I hope to be seeing more of you.  Chemistry IS pretty damn powerful.</description>
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Oops, I didn&#8217;t mean to ignore you darling.  First &#8211; WELCOME.  I hope to be seeing more of you.  Chemistry IS pretty damn powerful.</p>
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