The weekend before last I had a really great 1st date. And then hours later the guy left town for work. We’d been in touch while he was away, exchanged a simple – that was fun, let’s get together again email volley.
And now he’s back. Or rather, I think he is. He was due back Tuesday.
I haven’t heard from him.
I could reach out to him, but I’ve decided not to. It’s not about wanting to be chased or thinking that he’d rather chase me.
It’s just that I’ve been there and done that with guys who travel a lot for work. And I know that the only way I’d want to get into something like that again is if I was 100% sure it was a good idea. And part of that means being 100% sure (or as sure as I can be) that he’s really into me.
If he was, I’d have heard from him by now. And I haven’t. So he isn’t. And that’s cool.
In the meantime, I have an inbox full of messages from guys I haven’t answered. It’s been a weird week.
Tags: first date, Online dating