It looks like I’m not going to be going out with that 33 year old after all. Sorry, I really was ready to give the whole cougar thing a whirl, but I can’t. Not with this one. He just completely blew it.
We met online a week or so ago and have been exchanging very brief messages. I guess I’ve been intentionally keeping it brief because of the age thing. It made me really uncomfortable. I know that sounds ridiculous. And it probably is ridiculous. But it’s how I felt.
Anyway, we were talking about getting together this weekend. And then he sends me this totally outrageous, VERY NAUGHTY email.
Let me be clear here, we’re talking rated XXX, not rated R. And no, I will not copy and paste sections of it. Let’s just say that if I received an email like this from a man I was actively dating, I’d probably be turned on. But from a guy I met online prior to our first date, it’s repulsive. A complete dealbreaker.
I promise not to hold this against all younger guys.
Tags: cougars, first date, Online dating, younger men