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	<title>Comments on: The Same Old Story</title>
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	<description>Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.</description>
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		<title>By: Simone Grant</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/07/09/the-same-old-story-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3580</link>
		<dc:creator>Simone Grant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 14:50:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, well, well. There are some good suggestions here.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, well, well. There are some good suggestions here.  <img src='http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/07/09/the-same-old-story-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3579</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 03:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about online dating vs. real life? I don&#039;t do online dating. I&#039;m a guy and in an instant if I see a girl I could like, and I talk to her, and I can tell if there is a potential or not. Chats, emails before having real life experience with someone are worthless in my opinion... What do you think? My friends share this view although they play the online game from time to time.

Second idea... What is really dating?? Is it really looking for a perfect match or it&#039;s more just pure joy of playing the game of randomness. Meeting new people, hanging out with them, making out with them, sleeping with them. All this out the objective of really finding someone. And we end up in this mindset after some troubled long and unsuccessful relationship.

Third, long-term sex only arrangements, do they work? I tend to believe that one side always gets emotional, and the set-up falls apart. I haven&#039;t maintained one for more than few weeks... Excluding come backs, but that was usually with way too much talking, explaining, instead of pure physical enjoyment of each other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about online dating vs. real life? I don&#8217;t do online dating. I&#8217;m a guy and in an instant if I see a girl I could like, and I talk to her, and I can tell if there is a potential or not. Chats, emails before having real life experience with someone are worthless in my opinion&#8230; What do you think? My friends share this view although they play the online game from time to time.</p>
<p>Second idea&#8230; What is really dating?? Is it really looking for a perfect match or it&#8217;s more just pure joy of playing the game of randomness. Meeting new people, hanging out with them, making out with them, sleeping with them. All this out the objective of really finding someone. And we end up in this mindset after some troubled long and unsuccessful relationship.</p>
<p>Third, long-term sex only arrangements, do they work? I tend to believe that one side always gets emotional, and the set-up falls apart. I haven&#8217;t maintained one for more than few weeks&#8230; Excluding come backs, but that was usually with way too much talking, explaining, instead of pure physical enjoyment of each other.</p>
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		<title>By: drumdance</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/07/09/the-same-old-story-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3578</link>
		<dc:creator>drumdance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 22:21:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The first time I tried X&quot; is always good...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The first time I tried X&#8221; is always good&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: SpikeTheLobster</title>
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		<dc:creator>SpikeTheLobster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 22:16:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about &quot;17 vegetables that are better at sex than most people&quot; or &quot;Why trying to emulate a porn star in the bedroom is a bad idea&quot; or &quot;Tape measures: not your best friend&quot;? :o)

I&#039;m rubbish at this. I&#039;d be intrigued to know what the obsession with climaxing ON somebody is, though. Is it just because porn movies do it, or what? I mean, it must be a cow to wash that stuff off. And if it gets in your hair? Yikes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about &#8220;17 vegetables that are better at sex than most people&#8221; or &#8220;Why trying to emulate a porn star in the bedroom is a bad idea&#8221; or &#8220;Tape measures: not your best friend&#8221;? <img src='http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> )</p>
<p>I&#8217;m rubbish at this. I&#8217;d be intrigued to know what the obsession with climaxing ON somebody is, though. Is it just because porn movies do it, or what? I mean, it must be a cow to wash that stuff off. And if it gets in your hair? Yikes.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 20:55:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>More and more, guys are getting into ass play. Not doing it, but having it done to them. Care to weigh in?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>More and more, guys are getting into ass play. Not doing it, but having it done to them. Care to weigh in?</p>
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