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The Same Old Story

I’m not a big fan of following the herd when it comes to things to write about.  Yes, I look to other blogs and websites for inspiration.  But if there’s a story that I see lots of other people writing about then it’s pretty unlikely that I’ll jump on the bandwagon.  I figure that by the 3rd or 4th story, there’s nothing new or original for me to contribute so why bother.

So, if anyone’s wondering when I’m going to chime in with my posts about or brazilian waxes you can stop.  I’m not going to be writing about either.  Except to say I’ve had my fair share of both (in the case of the latter- and still have a nice liitle collection of the former).  I’m not quite sure why everyone feels the need to be writing posts about these things lately.  I guess they’re topics.  Whatever.

I’ve been thinking of some really sex topics to write about…  As always, I’m open to suggestions.


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7 to “The Same Old Story”


  1. sfsingleguy says:

    What’s up with the ‘send a text right after the date’ move? Can you break that down for us clueless guys?

  2. drumdance says:

    I’d be interested in hearing more about what it is that attracts you to a particular person or type. You’ve mentioned the arrogant asshole type that you’re now trying to avoid – what is is about them that turns your crank?

    The alcoholic – if not for the smell, you would’ve seen him again, right? Why?

  3. Anonymous says:

    More and more, guys are getting into ass play. Not doing it, but having it done to them. Care to weigh in?

  4. SpikeTheLobster says:

    How about “17 vegetables that are better at sex than most people” or “Why trying to emulate a porn star in the bedroom is a bad idea” or “Tape measures: not your best friend”? :o)

    I’m rubbish at this. I’d be intrigued to know what the obsession with climaxing ON somebody is, though. Is it just because porn movies do it, or what? I mean, it must be a cow to wash that stuff off. And if it gets in your hair? Yikes.

  5. drumdance says:

    “The first time I tried X” is always good…

  6. Anonymous says:

    How about online dating vs. real life? I don’t do online dating. I’m a guy and in an instant if I see a girl I could like, and I talk to her, and I can tell if there is a potential or not. Chats, emails before having real life experience with someone are worthless in my opinion… What do you think? My friends share this view although they play the online game from time to time.

    Second idea… What is really dating?? Is it really looking for a perfect match or it’s more just pure joy of playing the game of randomness. Meeting new people, hanging out with them, making out with them, sleeping with them. All this out the objective of really finding someone. And we end up in this mindset after some troubled long and unsuccessful relationship.

    Third, long-term sex only arrangements, do they work? I tend to believe that one side always gets emotional, and the set-up falls apart. I haven’t maintained one for more than few weeks… Excluding come backs, but that was usually with way too much talking, explaining, instead of pure physical enjoyment of each other.

  7. Simone Grant says:

    Well, well, well. There are some good suggestions here. :-)