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Archive for July, 2009

Top 5 Reasons Why Every Single Girl NEEDs A Bunch of Guy Friends (the Type Who Like Boobs)

Remember When Harry Met Sally? No, not the scene at Katz’s (which, btw, is not as good as it used to be).  The bit about men and women not being able to be friends.  It made for great movie dialogue, but lucky for me, I’ve always known it’s a load of crap. How do I [...]

"Single" Can Mean a Lot of Things

So yeah, I’m single and I date a lot.  Big whoop. Girls like me are a dime a dozen.  Guys, too. What I find more fascinating are people who don’t date. And I don’t mean fascinating in a judgmental way.  I mean honest to goodness – fascinating. The non-daters I’m thinking of seem to fall [...]

I Love You, But I Love Another More?

I’m not a big fan of reality shows (with a few exceptions – I’m completely in love with Top Chef and had a mild flirtation with the Millionaire Matchmaker, but couldn’t stand her past season 1).  The shows that I really don’t get are the Bachelor and the Bachelorette.  The whole formula just doesn’t make [...]

And It Was Good

So last night’s date was full of surprises.  Most of them good. He’s SO an old picture guy.  He’s the same weight, but his hair is significantly more gray and a totally different style.  I think gray hair can be totally hot, btw.  In fact, I think he was way more attractive in person than [...]

Weird Facts

Every once and a while I end up being my dad’s date for dinner.  It’ll be me and him and several couples his age.  People he would have gone to dinner with with my mom if she were still alive (She passed away less than a year ago, and so we’re still transitioning.  Figuring out [...]