I’m not a big fan of winks. For those of you who don’t speak online dating, members of any given site can wink at one another.  A wink is a low commitment way of telling someone you’re interested.  They’re always free (some sites charge per message) and require very little effort.  All you need to [...]

Last week I mentioned the beer and wings get together we had with guys from the man panel.  Well, at some point during the night I found myself talking about good sex (go figure).  I’m not sure how it got started, but the premise was basically that a person could have amazing sex with someone [...]

And so, I don’t have a 3rd date tonight with Mr. Red Flag.  I got an email from him late yesterday afternoon, cancelling.  It seems he and his ex have been talking and blah blah blah – it’s not fair for him to be dating anyone else while they’re talking and maybe working on things. [...]