I’m not a big fan of winks. For those of you who don’t speak online dating, members of any given site can wink at one another.  A wink is a low commitment way of telling someone you’re interested.  They’re always free (some sites charge per message) and require very little effort.  All you need to [...]

Last week I mentioned the beer and wings get together we had with guys from the man panel.  Well, at some point during the night I found myself talking about good sex (go figure).  I’m not sure how it got started, but the premise was basically that a person could have amazing sex with someone [...]

And so, I don’t have a 3rd date tonight with Mr. Red Flag.  I got an email from him late yesterday afternoon, cancelling.  It seems he and his ex have been talking and blah blah blah – it’s not fair for him to be dating anyone else while they’re talking and maybe working on things. [...]

You all know how much I love dating and relationship experts.  I love them.  I especially love the way they give completely contradictory advice, with a straight face, and then expect people to take them seriously.  And sadly, people do.  Take them seriously.  Because so many of us are so freaking desperate to find love [...]

I was a very busy SINgleGIRL on Saturday with two dates scheduled back-to-back.  First up was my second date with a guy I first went out with a week or so ago. He’s going to need a nickname because we have another date scheduled for tomorrow night.  For now I’m going to call him Mr. [...]