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	<title>Comments on: Go Ahead, Deny It</title>
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		<title>By: SINgleGIRL</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/05/09/go-ahead-deny-it-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2464</link>
		<dc:creator>SINgleGIRL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 16:04:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-Serial Sinner
Welcome to the blog. Who knew we&#039;d get such a complex analysis of sexuality, gender and happiness from, &quot;What would Penis do?&quot;

I don&#039;t know about &quot;normal&quot; women, but give me good sex and some french fries (preferably from the Belgian place on 2nd Ave, but I will accept substitutes) and I&#039;m pretty damn happy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>-Serial Sinner<br />
Welcome to the blog. Who knew we&#8217;d get such a complex analysis of sexuality, gender and happiness from, &#8220;What would Penis do?&#8221;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about &#8220;normal&#8221; women, but give me good sex and some french fries (preferably from the Belgian place on 2nd Ave, but I will accept substitutes) and I&#8217;m pretty damn happy.</p>
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		<title>By: Serial Sinner</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/05/09/go-ahead-deny-it-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2463</link>
		<dc:creator>Serial Sinner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 10:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there. I have following your blog for a couple of months, and it took this post to make me comment.

I found  the post very entertaining and, for the most part, I&#039;d say pretty accurate. If we approach relationships from an evolutionary perspective, many things start to make sense. And the &quot;phenomenon&quot; of Penises taking control over the mind of men is not a surprise at all.

Everything points out to, evolutionarily speaking, men being hardwired to mate as much as possible. Proof of this would be the constant fertility translated into high sperm count and production. Not to mention the fact that many hump at anything that moves.

But sometimes we are not that basic. I would think that men are always (probably unconsciously) making a cost/benefit analysis where, if the mind and the heart have a lot to lose, they might overpower the penis. That&#039;s why some can still mange to withstand monogamy. And I&#039;m sure the same applies to women as well.

However,  if a normal man has weak or no mind /heart connections to break, the penis will probably be unleashed, many times to the horror of it&#039;s owner.

Women have it tougher than men though. Evolutionarily speaking, they had much more to lose than men when mating (the male could leave anytime putting the woman and baby in serious risk). This very likely made women evolve to be pickier and savvier than men in their choices.

Because of the above, I would argue that modern women tend to be pickier (and therefore more complicated) in their relationships than men. An example of this would be to ask the following question: &quot;what makes a normal woman/man happy?&quot;

We have to accept that the answer to the first question is rarely simple.

We also have to accept that the answer to the second question is usually simple: a steak and a bj.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there. I have following your blog for a couple of months, and it took this post to make me comment.</p>
<p>I found  the post very entertaining and, for the most part, I&#8217;d say pretty accurate. If we approach relationships from an evolutionary perspective, many things start to make sense. And the &#8220;phenomenon&#8221; of Penises taking control over the mind of men is not a surprise at all.</p>
<p>Everything points out to, evolutionarily speaking, men being hardwired to mate as much as possible. Proof of this would be the constant fertility translated into high sperm count and production. Not to mention the fact that many hump at anything that moves.</p>
<p>But sometimes we are not that basic. I would think that men are always (probably unconsciously) making a cost/benefit analysis where, if the mind and the heart have a lot to lose, they might overpower the penis. That&#8217;s why some can still mange to withstand monogamy. And I&#8217;m sure the same applies to women as well.</p>
<p>However,  if a normal man has weak or no mind /heart connections to break, the penis will probably be unleashed, many times to the horror of it&#8217;s owner.</p>
<p>Women have it tougher than men though. Evolutionarily speaking, they had much more to lose than men when mating (the male could leave anytime putting the woman and baby in serious risk). This very likely made women evolve to be pickier and savvier than men in their choices.</p>
<p>Because of the above, I would argue that modern women tend to be pickier (and therefore more complicated) in their relationships than men. An example of this would be to ask the following question: &#8220;what makes a normal woman/man happy?&#8221;</p>
<p>We have to accept that the answer to the first question is rarely simple.</p>
<p>We also have to accept that the answer to the second question is usually simple: a steak and a bj.</p>
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		<title>By: SINgleGIRL</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/05/09/go-ahead-deny-it-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2462</link>
		<dc:creator>SINgleGIRL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 22:08:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Damn, I&#039;ve just realized the giant typo in my comment (yes, I know my comments are frequently riddles with typos).  That should say, &quot;under a certain age&quot;.   And Spike, you should be asleep by now.  It&#039;s LATE on your side of the Atlantic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Damn, I&#8217;ve just realized the giant typo in my comment (yes, I know my comments are frequently riddles with typos).  That should say, &#8220;under a certain age&#8221;.   And Spike, you should be asleep by now.  It&#8217;s LATE on your side of the Atlantic.</p>
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		<title>By: SpikeTheLobster</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/05/09/go-ahead-deny-it-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2461</link>
		<dc:creator>SpikeTheLobster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 22:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Irony.. is that where you use a hot thing to flatten the creases out of clothes?
Egad, I need to sleep.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Irony.. is that where you use a hot thing to flatten the creases out of clothes?<br />
Egad, I need to sleep.</p>
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		<title>By: SINgleGIRL</title>
		<link>http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2009/05/09/go-ahead-deny-it-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2460</link>
		<dc:creator>SINgleGIRL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 20:05:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-SpikeTheLobster
Just like there is no one female psyche, I know there is no one male psyche.  I&#039;m sure there are many guys for whom this video on point. I believe you completely when you say it doesn&#039;t hold true for you and that it has nothing to do with insecurity.
-Hammer86
It&#039;s a funny video. A joke. Haha. Do men under a certain not understand irony?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>-SpikeTheLobster<br />
Just like there is no one female psyche, I know there is no one male psyche.  I&#8217;m sure there are many guys for whom this video on point. I believe you completely when you say it doesn&#8217;t hold true for you and that it has nothing to do with insecurity.<br />
-Hammer86<br />
It&#8217;s a funny video. A joke. Haha. Do men under a certain not understand irony?</p>
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