I haven’t kept a count, but I’m gonna guess that in the last 7 days I’ve seen at least 5 references (on blogs and on Twitter) to single women getting asked out by or going out on dates with married men (who then disclosed on the date that they were married).
I’m of two minds here. 1) If these are guys in open marriages, then they’re not doing anything wrong. They are exercising their option to pursue extra relationships outside the marriage. And, I’m actually pretty cool with the idea of open relationships, both in theory and in practice.
But 2) it can be really hard to be on the receiving end of these attentions. Because a girl never knows if the guy is being truthful about his relationship status (unless she meets the wife). And it’s hard to know where to draw lines.
Or maybe these guys are just all cheating bastards?
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