Comments on: Monday Morning Blahs

By: SINgleGIRL

SINgleGIRL — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 18:32:03 +0000

-Singlegal
LOL. Maybe we should make a little Lame dance. Initiative coupled with follow through. It’s not much to ask, surely?
-Anonymous
I was faced with that very problem just a couple of months ago (a couple?, I think it was a couple). I started to see a man I called The Musician and he just didn’t cut it in that dept. (you can search for the posts about that using the search feature in the top right corner – the one about the bad sex and subsequent break up is http://www.sex-lies-dating.com/2798741). I sent him an email (yeah, I was a gutless turd and did it by email) saying that I’d enjoyed getting to know him but that I didn’t feel we were a good fit for one another. Not untrue, but not mean.
-Hammer86
OK. Well good for you. I think I him too. Not sure what difference that makes. He’s gone for a couple of weeks and a lot can happen in a couple of weeks.

By: Hammer86

Hammer86 — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 15:40:54 +0000

I think I like the European.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 13:57:40 +0000

Hi Simone. I know that you don’t really give advice, but since we do have one thing in common (bad sex being a dealbreaker) I was wondering how you would break off dating with someone because you had that 4th/5th date when it got hot and heavy, but it was really bad? Do you tell them “Sorry, dude! But you don’t pass my standards”? How can I get out of this one “nicely”?

By: Singlegal

Singlegal — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 12:41:22 +0000

Hey! “Lame” is currently the sound track to my life! I do hope it goes away soon. But yes – I feel the same way. It would be nice to find a guy who showed some initiative for a change. Good luck …