I spend way too much time online. Between my blog, and the private messages I get from readers here on OnSugar (always a good way to reach me, btw) and Twitter and reading and commenting on other people’s blogs, I probably spend more time online each week than I ever did reading traditional periodicals. The majority of that time is interactive, in other words, I’m exchanging ideas with people. I’m not just passively reading.
Anyway, sometimes I find myself thinking and writing about things that I otherwise wouldn’t. It’s just that other people bring these topics up and then they get stuck in my mind. Here’s one of those topics – First times.
I know exactly one person – 1, who has only ever been with one partner. Her husband. They didn’t wait until their wedding night. But he was her first and they ended up marrying pretty young and now it’s nearly 20 years later and they’re still together.
I don’t know anyone who waited until their wedding night.
I know people who’ve had a couple/few partners and others who’ve had dozens. People who first had sex in their early teens and others who started in their twenties. And yet with all of this diversity I’ve never heard a single positive story about a first time. Ever.
Maybe the people with the happy stories keep them to themselves?
I’d like to know. Seriously, I’d like to know if there’s anyone out there who has fond memories of their first time.
- I’m a virgin. Still waiting for my first time. (125 votes)
- My first time was special and beautiful. (101 votes)
- My first time was awful. I’d rather not think about it. (104 votes)
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