So, the other day I got a lovely message from a reader.  In the message he said that he found it odd that I never mentioned any female friends in my posts.  It wasn’t a criticism.  He was just remarking on it. Well, it got me to thinking.  I know I mention friends sometimes, and [...]

So I now have most of the 30+ guys who are in my “active match” group on Chemistry.com in a holding pattern.  I’d delete them but I can’t just delete them.  To get rid of them I’d need to give the system a reason why and quite frankly I just don’t feel like doing that. I [...]