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And My Back Burner is Empty

One thing I forgot to mention in my earlier post.  In addition to talking with Mr. Potential about the fact that I hid my profile and wouldn’t be seeing any other men, I also made that an absolute and complete reality by emailing all of the other guys I’ve been communicating with and telling them that I am no longer on the market.  This means there’s no one waiting for me on the back burner if Mr. Potential doesn’t work out.

This is as close as I get to ‘all in‘.

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6 to “And My Back Burner is Empty”


  1. recklessstudio says:

    Oh, wow…well the fact that you are doing this under your own power and not being influenced or being influencing says a lot about your character and how you handle relationships.

    There is a compliment somewhere in that mush.

  2. Seth Simonds says:

    I think it’s great that you not only made a commitment but you were candid in telling Mr. P about where you’re at in the relationship. You’re in for some fun!

  3. lechemax says:

    yay! I hope mr. p appreciates your candor! Good luck!

  4. SINgleGIRL says:

    Thanks everyone. I appreciate the kudos. I guess I’ll know soon enough if he appreciates the candor or if he was truly freaked out by it and was just pretending to be cool. In the meantime, I’m just trying to chill. Trying.

  5. WiiAdam says:

    Chill, baby, chill! :)
    ~~Ain’t life grand.
    (I’m here..I guess.)

    ~x~WiiAdam.

  6. SINgleGIRL says:

    SOOO happy you joined us WiiAdam. I hope to hear more from you.